We Swore We’d Never… But Here We Are.

If you would’ve told me five years ago that I’d be writing this post, I probably would’ve laughed, smiled politely, and said “never us.”

But here I am. Writing the words I swore I’d never say:
Our kids are going to school.

Not just any school—but I won’t be sharing the specifics here (because: boundaries 💛). What I will share is that it’s a beautiful hybrid model that gives our family the best of both worlds. It’s flexible. It’s intentional. And most importantly—it feels right for this season.

From “Never Ever” to “Okay, Maybe…”

What’s funny is… homeschooling wasn’t even our original plan. I was a teacher. I loved teaching. But I never imagined I’d be the one teaching my own kids at the kitchen table, day in and day out.

Then one year turned into five. And those five years? They were sacred. They changed me. I wouldn’t trade them for anything.

But life is funny like that—just like I never planned to homeschool, I definitely didn’t plan to stop.

If you asked me four months ago if we’d be sending our kids to school, I would’ve said, “Not a chance.” And yet, here we are.
Another unexpected chapter. Another leap of faith.

The Heart Behind This Change

This decision didn’t happen overnight. It’s been months of praying, talking, second-guessing, and circling back again. Because the truth is: one of our kiddos just wasn’t thriving. And that’s the beautiful thing about homeschooling—we get to pivot when something isn’t working. We get to pause and ask, “What does this child need right now?”

And honestly? What they needed was something different. Something new. Something that would stretch and challenge them in a way I couldn’t fully give at home anymore.

And whew—saying that out loud is emotional. Because I’ve poured my heart into homeschooling these last five years. We’ve built routines, memories, traditions. We’ve grown closer as a family, and I wouldn’t trade that for the world.

But it was time for a shift.

Trusting God’s Timing

Making this choice has been one of the hardest decisions we’ve had to make as parents. There were tears (okay, mostly mine), late-night conversations, and more than one moment of “Are we really doing this?”

But the peace that’s followed… is unreal.
Because when you follow where God is leading—even when it’s scary—He always shows up with confirmation, comfort, and so much grace.

So here we are. Nervous? Yep. Excited? Oh, absolutely. And also a little bit in my feels because this mama season is changing in big ways (more on that soon… 👀).

To the Mama Reading This…

If you’re in the thick of a big decision—schooling, motherhood, whatever it may be—I just want to say: it’s okay to change. It’s okay to shift. It’s okay to do what’s best for your child even if it looks different than what you imagined.

This doesn’t mean we failed. It means we’re growing.

So cheers to fresh starts, new rhythms, and trusting that God knows what He’s doing—even when we don’t have it all figured out.

Sending you all the love (and probably a few snacks in my purse because: forever a homeschool mom at heart 😉),

Hugs,

Linds

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